My Personal Story

I am so glad you are here! This is an opportunity for you to get to know my personal story. My story relates to why I am so certain I can help you remove overwhelm, take control of your emotions, stop struggling and create permanent change in your life.


If you are a woman who is wanting a deeper sense of self-worth and confidence, ready to overcome and break free from overwhelm, fear, self doubt, and negative thought patterns so that you can take action towards living a purposeful, meaningful, and balanced life….

You are in the right place!

I provide personalized empowerment life coaching for young to middle-aged women who feel stuck, who have lost sense of self, who are unable to set or accomplish goals, and who have misplaced their sense of purpose.

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Kimberly Dillavou – Empowerment Life Coach

Let’s work together!

Fill out the questionnaire (via link below) to see if we are a good fit for my Unlocking Your Best You Program™.

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Years ago, I had lost myself…

I felt disconnected, alone, searching for something to fill up the sadness deep inside my soul.

I knew I wanted change to happen in my life, but I just didn’t know how to make that a reality.

Something was missing…

Thankfully.. I was able to unlock the missing pieces and become a better version of me!

Allow me to share my personal story with you.

Throughout my life, I have always been drawn towards helping and encouraging others. As a result, I have followed my passion to become a coach so I can help people transform their lives and become all they were created to be.

I believe that everything you need to create the desired change in your life is already within you. It is my job to help you the UNLOCK the pieces that have been buried away.

My Personal Story

I am wife to Jess and mom to 3 precious grown children. I am the first born of two girls.  Being the oldest wasn’t the easiest job.  Unfortunately, I was the one forging the way for my parents to figure out the “parenting” thing. 

My sister and I had the typical sibling rivalry, hated each other, and fought constantly.  Fortunately, I can say that I love my sister to pieces now.  Though it wasn’t always that way.

For so many years I had struggled to believe that I was beautiful, worthy of love and acceptance, enough, and that my life had purpose.

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The Struggle

Those growing up years were difficult ones.  My parents were parenting the best they could with the “tools” that they had.  They both had fears and strongholds that they were dealing with… all the while trying to raise two daughters and make a living. Thankfully, I am blessed with a beautiful relationship with them now.

Unfortunately, throughout my life I had struggled to believe that I was beautiful, worthy of love and acceptance, enough, and that my life had purpose. 

It was situations, experiences, and people that convinced me of these false truths.

A False Sense Of Identity

Because of the false identity that developed during my growing up years, I formed many distortions about myself.  Unfortunately, I carried them with me into my adult years.

Pain of the Past

Many decisions throughout my life were made because of my false identity. I allowed perfectionism and approval addiction to dictate my life.

Unfortunately, due to my painful past, I know the pain of:

depression

infertility

mental illness

anxiety

obesity

rejection

low confidence

low self-esteem and self-worth

extra marital affair

abandonment

rape

divorce

domestic physical abuse

emotional abuse

attempting suicide

Sadly, I know what it is like to look in the mirror and hate the person that is reflecting back, to feel as if everything in your world is out of control, and to feel like you are broken beyond repair.

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Lasting Change

Thankfully, I was able to come to a place where I was able to create the lasting change I so desperately wanted. I discovered along the way that if I truly wanted change to happen in my life, I needed to take an active role in creating that change.

As a result of all those difficult experiences, I have found a platform of hope and healing for others. 

I am so very grateful for each and every one of those painful situations because of the good that is coming from it today. 

Honestly, I wouldn’t want to change a thing.

If you are a woman who can relate to my personal story, then you are in the right place.

THIS IS WHAT I WANT FOR YOU…

Because of the healing that took place in my soul, I now know that I am beautiful, worthy of love and acceptance, and more than enough.  I also know that my life has purpose.

That is what I want for you, too. I want you to come to that place of loving the skin you are in and living a life you love.

I want other women to experience the freedom that I found from my painful and difficult past. That is why I created the Unlocking Your Best You Program™. The program is based on coaching training I’ve attended, along with the knowledge and tools gained going through the process of my personal healing and transformation.

The purpose of my program is to help you discover and learn tools and strategies to become your best you. 

My desire is to help you realize how worthy, precious, and loved you truly are.


You can breakthrough overwhelm, shift negative thoughts, develop unshakable confidence, and establish emotional control!

I wish I could tell you that there is one magic step for overcoming unhealthy self-doubt, emotional wounds, negative thought patterns, anxiety, and low self-worth. There isn’t one.

Healing of the soul is accomplished in small increments. 

It starts with having the courage to take action despite having fear and doubts.

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“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.

Albert Einstein

This is why learning new strategies and developing new patterns is so important to create the lasting change you desire.

It all starts with you….

Your beliefs.

Your mindset.

Your commitment.

Without a doubt, I believe that everything you need to create the desired change you desperately want is already within you.

All you need is the knowledge and tools, along with commitment, and you will be well on your way to creating the best version of you.

Discover and overcome what is causing the mental blocks and reframe your negative thinking patterns!

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Kimberly Dillavou – Empowerment Life Coach

Ready to Be Your Best Self?

Fill out the questionnaire (via link below) to see if we are a good fit for my Unlocking Your Best You Program™.

I want you to know that you are not alone!

Unfortunately there are thousands of others just like you, feeling the same as you do.  

“I want to inspire you to change the relationship you have with yourself and THAT shift will change everything.”

I see you!  I see every single one of you and desire for you to step into all you were created to be by implementing my coaching program.

You have the power to be brave and be the hero of your own life! 

Choose to get out of your comfort zone and do what it takes!

Are you ready to become the best version of you?

Can you relate to my personal story?

I believe all you need is some insight, clarity, structure, and accountability to achieve the life you desire.

I would love to walk beside you as you embark on the journey of becoming your best you.

Working with me will entice you on an introspective journey of self discovery that will empower you to see that you are loved, valued, and worthy right now, right where you are.

Together you will discover how worthy, precious, and loved you truly are.

If you are ready to explore the benefits of coaching and how I can help, please fill out the questionnaire (via the link below). I will get back with you within 24 – 48 hours via email to schedule your free discovery call. The call will be 30-45 minutes long.

There is no obligation to commit to anything during the call. Absolutely no strings attached!

Can you relate to my personal story?

Let’s Work Together!

Get a taste of being part of my community

Free Private Facebook Group for Women

Unlocking Your Best You- Increased Confidence, Self-Esteem, and Self-Worth

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Unlocking Your Best You™ Facebook group is a safe place for WOMEN to plug into daily for support, motivation, tools and strategies, and empowerment as they venture on their self-discovery journey. It’s a place where we can surround ourselves with like-minded women and thrive together as we become the best version of ourselves.


Free Discovery Call

Would you like to unlock your best you?

If you are a woman who is ready to explore the benefits of coaching and how I can help, please fill out the questionnaire. I will get back with you within 24 – 48 hours via email to schedule your free discovery call. The call will be 30-45 minutes long.

There is no obligation to commit to anything during the call. Absolutely no strings attached!

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Kimberly Dillavou – Empowerment Life Coach

Let’s connect and unlock a deeper sense of calm, self-worth, confidence, and purpose and live your best life!

XOXOX

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READY TO TRANSFORM YOUR INNER CRITIC TO YOUR INNER COACH?

If You Have Any Questions,

Feel Free to Email Me at

unlockingyourbestyou@gmail.com

You are not a mistake!

Undoubtedly, you are a precious gift to this world.

I help women break through OVERWHELM, overcome their inner critic and write a new story so they can replace fear, self-doubt and negative thought patterns with courage, confidence and clarity without sabotaging their growth cycle in order to take action towards living a purposeful, meaningful, and balanced life.